People worry about kids playing with guns, and teenagers watching violent videos; we are scared that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands - literally thousands - of songs about broken hearts and rejection and pain and misery and loss. Nick Hornby
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The message of this quote is that we should worry more about what we do than what others do. When kids play with guns and violent videos, they learn that those actions are not acceptable and that causing pain to others is not okay. When we listen to thousands of songs about other people’s pain, we learn that those feelings are okay and acceptable.

Source: High Fidelity

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